Love is more than an emotion. Love is a decision, we can choose either to love or not love. Each human being was born with the ability to love and be loved. As a matter of fact, God has commanded us to love Him, ourselves and our neighbors. God would not command us to do something if we aren’t capable of doing so. Sometimes we make the mistake of confusing love with infatuation. When we obey God we like God. God’s loves is unconditional. When we do this, we won’t withdraw our love when we are hurt or offended. Genuine love is not selfish or paranoid.
True love is a journey, not a goal. You don’t find true love like a flash of light. It grows as your soul grows, your heart opens, and you work through your personal Olam Tikkum, the wounded parts that need to be whole. It takes every fiber of your being, every inch of your flesh, every bone of your body to live true love. It is the treasure chest waiting for you at the bottom of the abyss. When you find that one willing to journey through the dark and light of true love –.it becomes a practice, a spiritual path, a continual communication to allow growth, change and for the unknown to exist. It is the most creative and spiritual endeavor of life’s mission.
Even if it is your fist time, try relaxing yourself, your mind and body. Be open, release yourself to Jelly Dildos. If you don’t give the chance to love, you may never get to feel what its like to be loved or to be in love. Life is a game of luck, if you don’t try, you may never know when you’ll win. Try first and even if it doesn’t work, you shouldn’t give up. The next person might just be the one your life has been waiting for. But that doesn’t mean you should rush into any relationship that comes your way. Take out time and scrutinize the whole thing, get to know the true purpose of the person in question before taking the next step.
Another incident was a nice young gentleman who was looking for a relationship only to be surprised by a gal who robbed him blind and stole his car. When the cops found the car, it was totally destroyed. He never looked to online dating either and both victims were turned off my dating totally until they found out about the old-fashioned way of dating through a reliable dating service.
The way your dates treat you and the opportunities that come your way are determined by your attitude, energy and your sense of self. Often times, it feels good to blame others, but you know intuitively that it is not right. One of the only things you can possibly get from downward dating is some instant physical satisfaction which is often very nice but that lasts for about a good sixty seconds. However, you’re not making the kinds of connection that you desire. You are not getting the emotional connection you desire, so you’re left upset, angry and frustrated.
Don’t hold back on emotion. Your characters’ emotions are as important to your story as their actions. Emotion is plot! Develop your characters’ feelings fully and describe these feelings fully. Emotion is one of the things readers want most in a romance.
Think about the people you meet in your daily life. Ask them questions and really listen to their answers. Try to understand the other person and show that you respect him or her. Take time to listen to people. Take time to understand them and to get through to their hearts.
In conclusion, walking in love is living the life of Christ. It pays to love with the love of God. God has commanded His children to love even as He had loved them. And God will never ask you to do what He wouldn’t do. So make up your mind to make walking in love your quest. I have done that and I hope you will do so too, today if you haven’t.